First Class Bitch

It started as a joke.I made it a movement.

Tori in her black hat and hot-pink wrap

I stopped pretending my standards are negotiable and people called me a Bitch - ha!

For years, I lived by standards I thought I was supposed to have. Standards that kept me small, quiet, agreeable, and easy to digest. I tolerated things that scraped against my spirit. I accepted dynamics that hollowed me out. And I carried versions of myself that were never mine to begin with.

The truth? I wasn't confused. I wasn't lost. I wasn't broken.

So, I stopped running from the label. I stopped defending myself against it, and I stopped trying to soften who I was to make other people comfortable.

Instead, I claimed it. I refined it. I elevated it.

I made it First Class.

I don't want to fix you.

You're not a project. I'm not going to hand you a personality and tell you to wear it.

What I will do is challenge you. I will likely say the thing your friends are too polite to say. I will ask the question you've been dancing around. Then I will stand there while you honestly answer it.

Because you already know something about yourself. You have standards you've been carrying quietly. Truths you've been whispering. A version of you you've been circling for years.

I want you to acknowledge her — the way I finally acknowledged me.

Tori smiling at the camera

Why me?

Because I lived the small version first. I was agreeable. I was easy. I was very, very good at keeping the peace, and it cost me things I'm not interested in paying for again.

I'm not here as someone who has it all figured out. I'm here as the woman who finally stopped negotiating with herself, said it out loud, got called a Bitch, and decided that was a compliment.

First Class Bitch is the expression of that. It's where I tell the truth without shrinking, and refuse to apologize for my clarity, my boundaries, my voice, or my being.

Sincerely,

Tori

First Class Bitch, Founder
DeparturesFirst Class

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